Celebrity Advice – Auntie Aura's Confessions Corner

Simon Cowell‘s friend, former love and dark shadow, Sinitta, hasn’t been able to keep her trap shut or her face out of the media since his new lover, Lauren Silverman’s pregnancy for the music mogul was publicly announced. Here Aunty Aura gives Sinitta some home truths as to why the 80s singer should shut up, and move on with her life.

Has Sinitta got a ‘fatal attraction’ for Simon

AUNTY AURA SAYS : As the saying goes “…there ain’t no fury like a woman scorned“, former pop singer, Sinitta is displaying all the signs of a woman “pissed on” by a man. In this open letter I explain why Sinitta needs to keep her gob shut about Simon’s private affairs, even if she was played by the X-Factor boss.

Dear Sinitta,

You can smile into a thousand cameras and can beam your voice into a million microphones about how happy you are for Simon and Lauren, how he’ll be a brilliant dad, etc and fool yourself but you don’t fool the public and I know you certainly don’t fool Mr Cowell. You’re over reaction to this pregnancy screams ‘jealous ex-lover’ into the face of a blind man.

Sexy Simon and Sinitta in the 80s

You and Simon dated back in the 80s when you were a short-lived pop singer. Your career flopped, his soared, yet despite splitting up, you remained friends. You’ve lived, travelled, and socialised well because of this friendship, even keeping your face and name in the media, despite not really doing anything for the last 20 years. If you and he are such good friends, why the hell are you spurting his private business to all who cares to listen?

Simon’s Baby Mama Lauren Silverman

Simon and Sinitta hanging out

I personally feel that deep inside your heart you are still in love with Simon and hoped that one day, in the near future, he’d give up the ‘playboy’ lifestyle, and settle down with you. I even believe that Simon probably encouraged these feelings. Making you feel special, confiding in you and allowing you to fulfil his sexual desires whenever he was at a low ebb. You’ve loyally held on waiting, allowed yourself to be used and aborted Simon’s baby in 2009 because you believed he didn’t want children only to be shafted for his ex-pals Mrs.

Yes it hurts, but its time to wake up and smell the cow-pat love. Maybe you hold some dark deep secret about Simon, or he does genuinely appreciate you as a friend, but he DOES NOT WANT YOU! Stop publicly making a fool out of yourself and nurture your children, instead of a dream. You may feel ‘wronged’ or ‘played’ but whilst thousands of women all over the world in your position have been left broken and alone from their heartache, you’ve had luxurious holidays and mixed with A-Listers whilst being nothing more than a nonebrity yourself. You claim to get along with Lauren, but if I was her, I would not want you in my company and certainly not around my baby. Get to grips with reality, Sinitta, before you lose it all. You’re becoming an embarrassment to modern women and probably are to the friends that you’ve got. Where’s your dignity?

Apart from money and charm…What’s so attractive about ole Simon?

Better singers than you, who sold more hits from your era are performing at holiday camps to butter their bread. Simon buttered your muffin and you willingly allowed him to. Be grateful and keep quiet or walk away.

Lucky escape? Brad Pitt also dated Sinitta in the 80s. Bet that’s one ex he’s glad he didn’t stay friends with.

Sinitta admits she felt “betrayed” by Simon Cowell over his baby with new lover (mirror.co.uk)
Sinitta says she aborted Simon Cowell’s baby (contactmusic.com)
Sinitta ‘stunned’ by Cowell baby (belfasttelegraph.co.uk)

Auntie Aura dishes out unsolicited advice for well known singer going through the baby Blues

Dear Auntie Aura,

I am an international Superstar, married to an equally well known rapper. Our marriage is blissful, even more so after the birth of our daughter last year. However, being in the public eye, I am constantly criticised in the media and social networking sites. From my hair, my music, the people I associate with, I am forever the subject of negative scrutiny. I was even accused of faking my pregnancy. Because I have a loving husband, a supportive family and the most devoted fans any celebrity could wish for, I don’t pay attention to the hate directed towards me. However, when these mindless people attack my child I see red and want to retaliate.

A typical internet comment referring to “Sasha’s” parenting

People criticise the way I dress her, her looks and claim that myself and my husband don’t care for her properly. That is so far from the truth, Auntie Aura. My daughter is the most precious gift in our lives and although I try to ignore it, these spiteful and ignorant opinions cut me up inside. My daughter is just a baby now and unaware of the hate, but what will I do when she’s old enough to understand this negativity? How do I protect her from getting hurt?

Sasha Jay Carter. US

Auntie Aura Says :

Sasha, I am sad to hear of your troubles. Despite your worldly status and success, you’re deeply unhappy, and I suspect, fronting a mask to your public. Being so famous at such a high level is always going to bring you drama but focusing on what you have will outweigh that. There are always people that are gonna be nasty in this world.

Although I could never come close to imagining your lifestyle, in my years of being a mother and supporting troubled children, I don’t agree when celebrities bring their children into the spotlight. That is a personal opinion, not a dig at you, but you’ve been groomed into your status, your daughter was born into it. If you post pictures of your child via social networking, however wrong and sick the comments are, these people are going to continue making them. That’s why, despite his wackiness, I think Michael Jackson had the RIGHT idea when he masked the identities of his three children. Also look at Superstar, Adele, the public haven’t seen her child because they have no right to anything else but her committal as a recording artist.

It’s too late to turn the clock back, but as you publicly stated a couple of years ago, [you like to] keep your private life…PRIVATE. You have a good family network, a healthy child and a life that many would cut their right arm off for. Enjoy it and stick a finger up to the haters. Don’t be a victim off your own success.