Category Archives: Sex

10.05.13
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ADVICE – Help! I Think I’ve Got A STD

Troubled teen Sasha asks Aunty Aura for advice, fearing she has caught a Sexually Transmitted Disease.

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DEAR AUNTY AURA,

I have been seeing my present boyfriend for almost two months and recently I’ve noticed a creamy yellow discharge from down below. When I told my boyfriend he said that “whatever I caught”, wasn’t from him and must be from my ex, as the symptoms take a while to show and he’s never caught anything before.

I’m too embarrassed to go to a sex clinic and even more horrified to talk to my doctor. My friend said it sounds like I’ve got gonorrhoea and she knows someone who can gets pills to treat it. Can you really buy medication without seeing a doctor? And my boyfriend says it’s safe for us to have sex with a condom, but I don’t feel comfortable with all this stuff coming out of me.

Sasha, 18, West Midlands, UK.

Image from a medical journal showing symptoms of gonorrhea

Image from a medical journal showing symptoms of gonorrhea

AUNTY AURA SAYS:   Sasha, you need to get yourself to a sexual health clinic ASAP. Your symptoms may sound like gonorrhoea but you need someone medically trained in STDs to confirm it. It won’t go away on its own and popping pills from a friend could make you ill, as well as not clear the infection. Ten minutes of embarrassment is a far deal better than a lifetime of misery.

I hate to say it, but your boyfriend sounds like a plonker. Whether he passed this “STD” to you or not, if you weren’t using condoms at the start of your relationship, its pretty likely he has it too. Also, why on earth would he want to continue sex whilst your infected and uncomfortable? Any decent boyfriend would’ve supported you and escorted you to the clinic. You’re a young adult and probably love his socks off, but I think you should re-evaluate your relationship. But please, please get yourself checked out by a professional. The quicker you do, the quicker you can get back to normality.

And WHEN you do get treated, do not have sex again with your boyfriend until he himself gets checked and treated as the infection will only spread back to you again. The doctors and the nurses will also give you any further advice you need. It’s free, so use it.

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06.13.13
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ADVICE – No Sex Before Marriage

Jake from the UK asks Auntie Aura for advice on his no sex relationship

"No ring, no things"

“No ring, no things”

Dear Auntie Aura,

From the moment I hooked up with my girl eight months ago, she said that she would never have sex until she’s married. Girls use that line all that time when they’re playing guys so I didn’t pay too much attention to what she said, however, eight months later, she’s sticking to her words and won’t free up.

My girlfriend claims she is a practising Christian, she doesn’t go to church every Sunday, she smokes, drinks and parties so why can’t she have sex. I’m almost 20, I get feelings and I’ve got needs. She allows foreplay, but whilst she can touch me to get me aroused, I’m not allowed to touch her underneath (vagina) as she says I’m “crossing boundaries” and steering her into temptation. I have feelings for this girl but I can’t hold out for much longer and I’m too young to be putting a ring on her finger. There’s plenty of girls around my way that I could have sex with but I don’t wanna be cheating on her. Maybe I should just end it. What do you think?

Jake, Birmingham UK

AUNTIE AURA SAYS:

Hi Jake. Although your girlfriend doesn’t sound very Christian-like, she stated a rule from the onset of your relationship, that there would be no sex before marriage. You have to respect that. However, her teasing you is not fair and I fully understand that you must be overwhelmed with sexual frustration, its only natural.

I don’t think this relationship holds out much hope for the future as you both have parallel feelings of what you want from each other. You’re not ready for marriage and your girlfriend doesn’t want sex. You can’t change her feelings and she can’t change yours so you’re on a road to disaster. You need to have serious words with your lady and part hopefully on friendly terms.

On another note, fair play on you for holding back for eight months. Not many guys would be able to do that.

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10.26.12
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Cougar Mommy Sleeps With Sons Friend

That's My Mommy

That’s My Mommy (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

I’m a 39 year old single mother of four.  I split with my partner last year after 10 years together and cannot see myself committing to a long-term relationship ever again.   However, for the last few months I’ve been having steamy secret sex with my nineteen year old son’s (from an earlier relationship) pal.

Madonna and Toyboy Brahim Zaibat

He’s only 21 with the body and experience of a grown man. The thrill of having a secret lover has blown the misery, caused by my break-up, out of my life. My children, especially my son, would be devastated and totally ashamed if they found out, my friends and family would likely disown me but I’m having the time of my life, and so is he. We both understand it’s nothing serious, just fun, no strings sex so as long as we’re discreet, I’m going to keep getting my freak on.

Cindy, Wolverhampton, UK

Auntie Aura Says :- Good on you Cindy. We love a Cougar story here on Auntie Aura’s Confession Corner. Every single woman needs a toyboy fling at some stage in their life to put the spring in their step. Shame he’s a friend of your sons as all hell will break loose should your fling be exposed.

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